Bribe is a harsh word, I prefer "motivational enticement"! I have 5 kids, ages 24 to 7, scheduling is important and Mom's attention is high priority. I try to break up chores by saying, "You need to make your bed and pick up your clothes, and I need to start the laundry; when we are both done I will dance with you for one song, or watch you ___. Usually the treat of my undivided attention is enough to get them going.

Sometimes everyone is given some things to do on a list and when all are checked off then we all go to the park, or watch a movie. Sibling pressure to "get on it" is usually more affective than my nagging and there is a spirit of working quickly as a team. No time for TV/computer/phone/friends/play until your list is done, also works very well, especially for older kids and teens! Sometimes just asking, "What do you need to take care of before you ______? (Go out to play, watch TV, etc.)

Being asked a question "feels" better than an order given, and it puts the responsibility on whom it belongs, which is the long term goal you are reaching for!
Daleen F., NC

My older son is 4. I usually don't have any trouble with him. We do our chores as soon as we come in from daycare. I give him one item to do at a time and I don't allow him to be distracted by the television or play time until the chore is done.

Secondly, I never ask him to do chores unless I am also working. He follows my example.

Likewise, my sister-in-law in Arionza has no trouble with her three (ages 9-13). She calls them all together and tells them how many items or chores each one needs to do. They work together and no one feels bad because they are working while another child is playing.
Cindy M., WA